tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-378074098323574416.post6713207307138573016..comments2023-10-28T15:22:39.389+00:00Comments on What can't be looked for: Quiz TimeCraverhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13162735846773014967noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-378074098323574416.post-66504699104666043972007-05-29T16:10:00.000+00:002007-05-29T16:10:00.000+00:00Oh, this is a trick question for sure. My typical ...Oh, this is a trick question for sure. My typical response would be gracious and 'it's no big deal, happy to help' in a puppydog sort of sycophant way.<BR/><BR/>Lately, having grown something of a spine, it would have been tough not to tell him whatfor.<BR/><BR/>Did he ever ask why you left? Does he know how he wasn't there for you? Or just assume that you'd be willing to pick up from where it was dropped?<BR/><BR/>PS - you're freaking me out with all the changing colors!Biff Spiffyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12779819218871812658noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-378074098323574416.post-34847223198717140472007-05-29T01:46:00.000+00:002007-05-29T01:46:00.000+00:00I'm betting you tried to help, and then got off th...I'm betting you tried to help, and then got off the phone and thought "What the fuck?" and then got angry and kind of sad.<BR/><BR/>Or maybe that's just me.Tracy Lynnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05310783668282179929noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-378074098323574416.post-15171773193656306742007-05-28T16:50:00.000+00:002007-05-28T16:50:00.000+00:00Maybe it's a gender thing but I politely disagree ...Maybe it's a gender thing but I politely disagree with all the women above, Cravey--and no doubt you also.<BR/><BR/>It sounds to me like you screwed up before. Sure, this guy wasn't there for you that night. But death is a pretty heavy issue and he might have needed a little bit of time to get used to the idea. Instead you just walked out on him. I do understand how much stress you were under at the time, and how your own emotions were maxed out, but you should have just shelved things for a day or two and then checked back with him. He said no to a funeral, you said no to the entire relationship. Just my humble little male opinion which might be "slightly" affected by having been walked out on myself recently.utenzihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15988445461413550750noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-378074098323574416.post-47076405645409452342007-05-28T05:03:00.000+00:002007-05-28T05:03:00.000+00:00My tendency would be to tell him to f*ck off, sinc...My tendency would be to tell him to f*ck off, since he had been such an assh*le when I needed him.<BR/><BR/>But the best response would be to tell him whatever he needed to know, and be all sweet and nice about it - and THEN tell him what an assh*ole he was.kenjuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07342414519714356343noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-378074098323574416.post-70342878443961233742007-05-27T19:42:00.000+00:002007-05-27T19:42:00.000+00:00Oh how I hate blogger and the reload button.I had ...Oh how I hate blogger and the reload button.<BR/><BR/>I had said that you prolly handled it gracefull, then shouted bad words ath the phone after he hung up.<BR/><BR/>OR, the other equally likely outcome would have been that you told him to suck it up and nbe a man, then hung up.<BR/><BR/>With it being YOu we're talking about, it's ever so hard to tell.tiffhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01351692108818152561noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-378074098323574416.post-24950654256747964832007-05-27T16:38:00.000+00:002007-05-27T16:38:00.000+00:00I hope you were the bigger person and showed him s...I hope you were the bigger person and showed him some pity.<BR/>...then yelled at the person who gave him your phone number!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-378074098323574416.post-85686746014327728722007-05-27T02:00:00.000+00:002007-05-27T02:00:00.000+00:00...Or you told him that you couldn't do it just no......Or you told him that you couldn't do it just now.rennratthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08258514296905380163noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-378074098323574416.post-344041441402593352007-05-27T01:59:00.000+00:002007-05-27T01:59:00.000+00:00Be for him what he never was for you.Maybe, after ...Be for him what he never was for you.<BR/><BR/>Maybe, after this time, he realizes what a mistake it was.rennratthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08258514296905380163noreply@blogger.com